Gender equality is something that extremely frustrates me because no matter how many decent things the female population do for the world and humanity we still don't get the respect we deserve.
The thing I really want to discuss in this blog post is sexual equality and how woman are judged highly on their sexual lives, preferences and who and how many guys they sleep with. I also find that it's mainly just straight and bi girls who get judged this maybe because women are seen as sexual objects which basically means gay girls can have sex with as many girls as they want because they are girls. Women shouldn't have to feel ashamed of their sexual interests, they should be proud that they can enjoy it without feeling judged, or less valued as an individual and have that self confidence to do what makes them happy because it is absolutely ridiculous how someone can judge someone else solely because of their sexual lives which has nothing to do with that person or anyone else in the first place. The fact that guys get more respect when having sex with who they like is so unfair because they need someone to sleep with which is going to be a female so how should that put a bad reputation on the female population when it takes two to tango. Life would be ever so much easier if people especially the male population stopped looking down on women and treating them like sexual objects because they are worth so much more than that.
I hate it when women hate on other women for things like sexual interests and what they are wearing because we should be sticking together and helping to put equality to an end. I don't think people realise how much easier it would be to be equal to men if women just got along and stuck together in making it happen. I don't get why women or men would call other women slut shaming names because at the end of the day we are all the same who all like sex, so what the hell gives you the right to call anyone a slut or a whore. Just because they have had sexual intercourse with more men you think you have a right to make them feel like shit and lower their self confidence. At the end of the day it just means that they are more experienced and have had more experience with men which shouldn't be seen as bad or wrong it's human nature, simple as. People like different things but as long as they both want the same thing, using protection,what on earth is the problem? Society as a whole is making it a problem by making such a big deal out of it and portraying sex as a dirty, secretive thing towards women.
To solve this problem i think we should just treat everyone equal no matter what they're wearing and sexual interests whether they have any or not and who those interests are with. We need to realise that sex is perfectly natural and in human nature, there really isn't anything more natural for both genders not just male.
I found a great called SEX OBJECT BS by Laci Green who is an amazing youtuber who bases all her videos on sexuality. This one video is straight to the point and tells you all you need to know about the meaning of sexual objectification, please watch it.
I hope you enjoy and please subscribe to this Laci because she is totally awesome and all of her videos are amazing :)
Fair enough women don't get equal rights in certain countries but that's a religious argument as well so no point in going into that. On gender equality in western countries women get treated grand. Okay granted they do get called 'whores' or 'sluts' if they sleep with lots of guys and guys get respected, a key that can open any lock is a good key but a lock that can get opened by any key is a bad lock. I think that sums it up very well however I do respect people should be able to do what they want without getting in judged but we both know that won't happen. On the flip side however if a guy is a virgin he will get lots of the same stick a girl gets for being a 'slut' yet we don't claim gender inequality when a girl is respected for saving herself. I could continue but I think you get what I mean, I hope you understand my point of view its just as I see it.
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