Benefits Of Being Small Chested

Many girls think it's a negative thing being small chested so i'm going to write a blog post about all the positive things of being small chested and there are quite a few good points. Never think of it as an insecurity or negative thing because in my opinion it is a blessing, so if you do feel down about it read this blog post and i assure you that you will feel better afterwards.  

1. Back Pain? What is that? 

2. They never get in the way no matter what you're doing. 

3. You can get away without wearing a bra and no one will ever know because quite frankly you don't even need one. 

4. Never need to worry about having to buy a size up in tops or not fit into a dress because of your boobs. 

5. Sport bras are never needed, you could probably get away with not even wearing any kind of bra. 

6. You don't have to suffer the embarrassment of having to hold your boobs in place while running. 

7. Ridiculously expensive underwear is never a worry with you. 

8. Reductions are never going to be a worry for you.

9. You get to lie on your stomach without any pain whatsoever.

10. Sleeping is less of a problem. 

11. Less embarrassment if your bikini top gets washed away at sea. People will just think you're a long haired boy wearing lip gloss. 

12. Most bras fit you which means you don't have to get measured for your bra size.

13. You know that boys aren't getting with you because of your boobs.

14. You probably that a great ass to compensate for having literally no boobs. 

15. You will never have to worry about sagging when you get older.

16. dresses without straps or backless ones will not be an issue for you.  

17. Painful boobs? What are they? 

18. A lot of beautiful famous women are small chested such as Emma Watson, Keira Knightley, Kate Middleton, Cameron Diaz, Rihanna, Nicola Roberts, Kate Moss and many more. These women are very confident and doesn't let it affect them. 

19. You can wear literally anything and not having to worry about if it will fit.

Hope you enjoyed my different approach and style for this blog post. :)

Thank you for reading

Begin To Love Yourself

Nothing upsets me more than when people doubt themselves and don't believe in themselves because everyone, every single one of you have at least one thing you are good at whether that is giving advise, being there when people need you, art, writing, looking after animals, singing, sport and simply just being you. That one thing might mean little to you and might not even seem like anything but from somebody else's view it could and most likely will mean everything to them. Just because someone has discovered what they're good at and thrive off it doesn't mean you can't do the same you just need to have patience and not just find something you are good at but something that makes you happy. At the end of the day if something doesn't make you happy there is no point wasting your time doing it. 

To believe in yourself you also need to love yourself and i don't mean in a cocky or arrogant way but in a way that you can appreciate and acknowledge what you are good at and the features you like about yourself within your personality and appearance and make sure those positive features outweigh the ones that make you feel insecure. Everyone has their own insecurities no matter how perfect someone else seems in your eyes because someone may thing you look perfect in their eyes and that is why everyone should appreciate and love themselves. 

I hate the fact that it's almost seen as normal for teenagers, especially to hate themselves because we are constantly being shoved in the face by what society deems is perfection through magazines, music videos and other types of media. We should value the things that actually deserve to be valued such as simply being a genuinely nice person, doing spontaneous acts of kindness and someone's intelligence not just how much someone weighs or how pretty they are. 

So to start loving yourself i want you all to write down the things you like about yourself and the things you don't like making sure you are in a positive frame of mind when you do this. Make sure you really are aware and recognise the positive things and there are a lot more positive points than negative because i assure you that you do have more good than bad. 

I'm sorry if this blog post sounded a bit cliche and soppy but it's true and i do mean every word i put into this post. I hope it helps and you really do start believing in yourself, every single person that reads this. 

Thank you for reading :)

Gender Equality

Gender equality is something that extremely frustrates me because no matter how many decent things the female population do for the world and humanity we still don't get the respect we deserve. 

The thing I really want to discuss in this blog post is sexual equality and how woman are judged highly on their sexual lives, preferences and who and how many guys they sleep with. I also find that it's mainly just straight and bi girls who get judged this maybe because women are seen as sexual objects which basically means gay girls can have sex with as many girls as they want because they are girls. Women shouldn't have to feel ashamed of their sexual interests, they should be proud that they can enjoy it without feeling judged, or less valued as an individual and have that self confidence to do what makes them happy because it is absolutely ridiculous how someone can judge someone else solely  because of their sexual lives which has nothing to do with that person or anyone else in the first place. The fact that guys get more respect when having sex with who they like is so unfair because they need someone to sleep with which is going to be a female so how should that put a bad reputation on the female population when it takes two to tango. Life would be ever so much easier if people especially the male population stopped looking down on women and treating them like sexual objects because they are worth so much more than that. 

I hate it when women hate on other women for things like sexual interests and what they are wearing because we should be sticking together and helping to put equality to an end. I don't think people realise how much easier it would be to be equal to men if women just got along and stuck together in making it happen. I don't get why women or men would call other women slut shaming names because at the end of the day we are all the same who all like sex, so what the hell gives you the right to call anyone a slut or a whore. Just because they have had sexual intercourse with more men you think you have a right to make them feel like shit and lower their self confidence. At the end of the day it just means that they are more experienced and have had more experience with men which shouldn't be seen as bad or wrong it's human nature, simple as. People like different things but as long as they both want the same thing, using protection,what on earth is the problem? Society as a whole is making it a problem by making such a big deal out of it and portraying sex as a dirty, secretive thing towards women. 

To solve this problem i think we should just treat everyone equal no matter what they're wearing and sexual interests whether they have any or not and who those interests are with. We need to realise that sex is perfectly natural and in human nature, there really isn't anything more natural for both genders not just male. 

I found a great called SEX OBJECT BS by Laci Green who is an amazing youtuber who bases all her videos on sexuality. This one video is straight to the point and tells you all you need to know about the meaning of sexual objectification, please watch it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u_4dPB9MVS8

I hope you enjoy and please subscribe to this Laci because she is totally awesome and all of her videos are amazing :)

Disgusting Products By Urban Outfitters

I was absolutely disgusted and angry when I found out that Urban Outfitters having been selling tops that have 'eat less' and 'depression' on them, the fact that this vile store have been promoting these illnesses. Eating disorders and depression are real mental illnesses that kill people, more and more people are suffering these horrible illnesses each year because of bullying, pressure and society. Mental illnesses like these should never be glamorized and seen as a trend because they are far from glamorous and once someone has got a mental illness it stays with them for life because it's in your head forever. The same way when people bully you and call you terrible things it stays in your head for life whereas if it's physical those bruises, cuts, marks will heal. 

This gives off the wrong impression to young girls and boys. What if you're little sister, brother, daughter or son saw someone wearing one of these horrific tops? Urban Outfitters should be forced to shut down because of this, young people especially girls are so vulnerable we can't afford for things like this to become 'trendy' to them because they saw someone wearing it or saw it in the store. I am proud to say i have never been in an Urban Outfitters store or purchased anything from there and never will. You wouldn't see anyone wearing a top saying cancer on it so why on earth do Urban Outfitters think it's okay to promote depression eating disorders. The amount of people committing suicide is increasing which is devastating and people think it's okay to promote depression and glamorize it. It has now been taken off the shelves thankfully but it still angers me enormously that they would even think about selling such horrific products. They have now got a store called Depression, this is outright disgusting and I advise everyone who reads this to stay away from Urban Outfitters and any other store that think it's acceptable to make mental illnesses a trend/fashion statement. 

When i did my research on Urban Outfitters for this blog post i also found out some other outrageous scandals they have done in the past. In April 2010 they have a colour option of Obama/Black on one of their t-shirts which is extremely respectfulness and racist more shocking as this store is based in America. They also had another derogatory top saying 'Kiss me. I'm drunk, or Irish or whatever. They angered the Jewish by selling a shirt that mimicked the design of star patches Jewish people were forced to wear during the holocaust. I can't believe Urban Outfitters have been getting away with this for so long. 

Thank you for reading my blog :) xx

Being Shy

On the internet things such as social awkwardness and being antisocial are seen as a trend but for someone who is genuinely shy it is nothing to celebrate what so ever, i'm not saying it is all bad but it isn't exactly good. Being shy can restrict you from so many opportunities and prevents you from bettering as a person in many aspects of your life such as career wise, with friends and doing things spontaneously. Just because someone can speak louder than you and say what they think without trouble does not make them in anyway better than you. Unless you are shy people don't realise how hard it is even doing daily tasks such as making an appointment or going to the shop. I hate it when people say things such as 'why are you so quiet' or 'you should talk more' because being shy is who i am it isn't just a faze, it takes real time to overcome shyness and even if you do it's still there. It's not just a faze that you can suddenly come out of and become loud and outspoken yes it can happen but is unlikely. People often mistake shy people for being stuck up because it's hard to portray our personalities which means first impressions can be bad however just because you're shy does not make you stuck up in any way whatsoever normally the exact opposite. It's hard to start conversations especially with new people that we just met and keep that conversation flowing. Going to social events in another mission, when you can see everybody around you engrossed in conversation and you are unable to decide what to do, you don't what to but into people's conversations because you don't feel important enough to but you get anxiety stood on your own at a social event. It can also fill you with great sadness because everyone around you has someone else and you feel that you are just there.


If you are feeling down about being introvert there are positives like when you do make friends you know that person has taken time to get to know you because you are so reserved plus even though you might not have many friends the ones you so have are special. Most introverts are happy within their own company which means you are less likely to rush into a relationship as well as being an observer and being able to observe people before you get to know them.

Just remember that being shy is a part of you are and yes it might hold you back but it's certainly nothing to be ashamed about. Don't let anyone else put you down for it, you are as important as the next person no matter how outspoken they are because believe it or not being loud and confident has it's bad points as well.

Body Confidence

People come in all shapes and sizes and i think we should all celebrate this because nothing would be more boring than everyone physically looking the same. Never let people make you feel that you need to lose weight or put weight on because you are the person living in your body and as long as you are healthy and feel healthy there is nothing to worry about. If you want to lose or gain weight to help you with your confidence then go ahead as long as it's for yourself and nobody else. Wear things that flatter your figure and emphasis the features you like because no matter what your body size or shape i can assure you that there are a lot of good features, you just need to find them. When you do find the features you like about yourself make sure you focus on them rather than the parts that make you feel insecure because as well as having features you like everyone will always have insecurities. Remember that no matter now perfect someone else's figure may seem to you you don't know if they feel the same way about their body because after all you are your harshest critic. I don't think we give our bodies the credit they deserve we are constantly focused on the negative aspects but what about the scientific part, our bodies keep us a live, blood flowing through our bodies. We should accept the bodies the way they are, yes they might not be perfect but there isn't such a thing as a 'perfect body' because every body is different and that is something we should all celebrate. 

Here is me in my favourite dress that always makes me feel the most self confident because it hides most of my thighs which is the part of my body i am most insecure about and i like the way it emphasises my small waist. My top tip for you is to find an outfit that covers up the part of your body you're most insecure about in a flattering way and emphasises the part/parts you like. 

I hope you enjoyed my first proper blog post :) 

About me

I'm Zoe and i've decided to make a blog, the fact that i want to become a writer and this is a great excuse to write about things i'm passionate about on a regular basis. I would love to have people following my blog and letting me know the sort of posts they would like me to write. I'm very new to this so please excuse me if i go on a bit. In this blog i want to write posts about lifestyle, advise about various topics and general things that interest me. I love you enjoy this blog and promise to put a lot of effort into it.